Not ready-made advice, but your own path
You moved, and life seems to have been put on pause. You can start it again, and it doesn’t have to be one big step right away. There are different paths here, light ones and deep ones. Each of them helps you see more than you see now and shift your attention from what is missing to what you can already do. That is how your life begins to change.
Hello! My name is Iryna
I am a transformational coach and neurocoach. I live in Switzerland and know from my own experience what it is like — starting life over in a foreign country.
That is why you are always at the centre of our work. Your life, your strength and your wellbeing.
We go deeper than advice
We won’t stop at a plan on paper. We will gently go down to where your habitual reactions, fears and old rules live, the ones that no longer work here. When something changes inside you, solutions on the outside start to appear by themselves.
You stop blaming yourself
I understand how your brain reacts to change and an unfamiliar environment. Why in a new country your energy runs out so fast and a simple letter from an authority feels like a mountain. This is not about weakness. This understanding alone lifts a lot of needless guilt off your shoulders.
Your attention comes back to you
I work with your thinking and the focus of your attention. Where your attention goes, your energy goes too. Together we will find the thoughts that go round in circles and learn to shift your gaze from “why isn’t it working for me” to “what can I do for myself today”. Then your mind grows quieter, and there is room for your own decisions.
I don’t rush you or pull you by the hand. I walk beside you — at your pace and for your sake.Iryna
Do you recognise yourself in one of these phrases?
This is not a diagnosis or a label. It is the point where the conversation about you begins. Click your phrase and you will see how we can work with it.
Recognised yourself? Then it’s time to make time for yourself. Let’s start with an introductory meeting. It’s 30 minutes online, and it’s free.
Write “ВСТРЕЧА” in TelegramWhat our work rests on
I don’t give advice, and I don’t know better than you what is right. Right is whatever suits you. My job is to ask the questions you don’t ask yourself and to help you hear your own answers.
Emotional intelligence
You learn to notice what you feel and to understand what your feelings are telling you. Emotions stop controlling your decisions and start guiding you.
Spiral Dynamics
Helps you see which values are guiding you right now and why your old rules suddenly stopped working in a new country. That way it becomes clear what matters to you.
Thinking and focus of attention
Your thinking and your attention are your main resource. We notice the thoughts that go round in circles and direct attention to where there is a solution, not to where it feels scary. The focus shifts — and you have more energy.
How the brain works
An insight is only half the job. The other half is making the new part of your life. For that there is repetition, a body anchor and a small, doable step between meetings.
The first meeting — not an exam
If you have never been to a coach before, here is what will happen. Everything is set up so that you feel calm and safe.
- Step 1
You write to me
Send the word ВСТРЕЧА in Telegram. You can add a couple of lines about yourself and what is going on right now. No need to phrase it nicely, that’s my job.
- Step 2
We get to know each other
It’s 30 minutes online, and it’s free. I’ll ask you a few questions about yourself and tell you honestly whether I can help. If not, I’ll suggest who would be better to turn to.
- Step 3
The session — time just for you
We meet by video call, and all my attention belongs to you. You don’t need to prepare or bring anything. Everything you say stays between us.
- Step 4
You take a step for yourself
Each meeting ends with more than just a realisation. At the end we find a small, concrete action for your sake that you will really take before the next meeting.